What exactly do you mean by "different"?
Do you mean that you're not a clone of every other girl in the world? We know that. Girls aren't clones of each other, either. We're all our own person, but we're still all girls. Are you a trans or something?
Are you somehow trying to break away from a stereotype that is centered around girls? Well, in doing this, you're only reinforcing that there are, in fact, stereotypes that are centered around us, and because you are a girl, you are therefore sucked back into the stereotype.
And another thing, when almost every other girl in the world has something to say about how they're "different" than all those other girls, then they're all the same. They're all claiming that they're different, and in doing so, they have made even another stereotype that revolves around us girls.
And in the end, guys probably think that girls are all the same, no matter how "different" we try to be.
So let's just be ourselves, instead of trying to follow this "I'm not like any other girl you've met before" fad. Because
- You're probably exactly like other girls
- Saying you're different becomes cliche, and no one wants to hear that bull
- Guys only care about your ass anyways.
Like. :)
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